Showing posts with label Prayer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Prayer. Show all posts

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Prayer {Day 4}: The World

Oh, dear Lord, help us.  What a daunting task to pray for this world.  There is so much to be thankful for and at the same time to be down-right depressed about.  It can become so very overwhelming.  How do we begin?

Well, there are broad-sweeping prayers for the poor of the world, the homeless, the orphans, the sick, the widows, the abused, the war-torn.  These are important even though sometimes it seems like, oh, so broad a petition.  I can't help but think that there might not be anyone else praying specifically for a particular homeless or abused child somewhere in this world if not for these prayers.  They need our broad-sweeping prayers to cover them.  There might not be anyone praying specifically for a particular man who is struggling to feed or protect his family in a war-torn country or for a woman whose child is dying in her arms due to starvation.  They need our prayers, too.

If these people are not personally known by a Christian who is praying for them, who will pray?  Sometimes it seems too broad, too vague to pray it, but friends, these broad prayers cover specific people that might not otherwise be prayed for, so let's not get discouraged and stop.  They need our prayers.

Taking your prayers a step closer can be meaningful as well.  Knowing about a certain need or concern somewhere on the planet can help us pray more specifically.   There are those who have experienced natural disasters, outbreaks of illness, missionaries and aid workers struggling to meet needs and spread The Good News.  There are people groups who are just opening their hearts and minds to Christ that need His protection as the enemy rears his ugly head to retaliate.  These people need our prayers, too.  One resource for praying for people groups is the book Window on the World that I've written about before which is appropriate for children as well.



Another resource is a booklet called 30 Days of Prayer for the Muslim World.  Each August Christians are called to pray for Muslims all over the world through this devotional. There is an adult and a kid version.  You can purchase them (the adult booklet is $3 and the kids' is $3.50) or print out the PDF version. This prayer guide can be used any month of the year- not just August.


Open Doors has a pdf you can print out called "Prayer Guide For the Persecuted Church".

 "The Open Doors Handbook of Prayer is a snapshot of the 50 countries of the world where it is hardest to be a Christian.  These are the places where owning a Bible can get you arrested, where attending church means taking a beating, where the price of following Jesus is often paid in blood.  The handbook draws on data from the World Watch List, as annual ranking complied by Open Doors researchers based on detailed information from Open Doors co-workers and key church leaders in over 70 countries.  From North Korea to Nigeria, from Saudi Arabia to Syria, from Pakistan to the Palestinian Territories, these are the places where faith costs the most."  "The information in this booklet shows that, globally, things are getting worse, not better.  Some countries, for example, have moved down the list this year.  It's not that their record has improved; it's just that other countries have outstripped them in persecution." (quoted from the booklet)


There are also excellent publications like Mission Frontiers (this can be read online or subscribed to) which are amazing resources that open our eyes to the work that God is doing in this world and the ways we can support that work through prayer and support.

Let's step even closer and pray for persons and situations in this world that we are even more familiar with.  Maybe they are issues in our neighborhood that need prayer, missionaries and service workers that have gone out from our churches and communities, the homeless man we see regularly on our streets or the disheveled child being verbally abused by his mother in the grocery store, the children (and their families) that we sponsor through organizations like Compassion International.  Maybe it's a country we've visited or the very country we were born in.

Please take a deeeeeeep breath.  In and out.

I don't mean to overwhelm.  But with these needs before us, how can we afford not to make prayer a very important part of our lives?  And I am talking to myself here as well!!  Brothers and sisters, we are called to pray.  We are called to pray without ceasing.

The Challenge:  Originally, I had intended to challenge us to pray for a half hour (straight) tomorrow.  Now, that seems just piddly.  Let's step it up and commit to praying for a half hour (straight) every day for a week (Friday- Friday) with the goal being to increase it over time.  Write it on your calendar or in your planner as if it's an appointment you have with someone you do not want to disappoint or stand up.  We would never stand up a friend.  Why do we allow ourselves to stand God up?!  Don't just say you're going to do it if you are.  Plan for it.  Look at it in a way that will help you remember and follow through.

This is a daunting challenge for me, but I cannot ignore God's call to prayer and those that need prayer any longer.  I'm committing to do this as well.

If you want to join me, please let me know in the comments below.  Let's hold ourselves and each other accountable in this way.  To God be the Glory!

"Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstance; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18



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Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Prayer {Day 3}: Praying for One Another

If you're like me, you always have a handful people that you want to remember in prayer.  Maybe it's someone who is ill, going through a tough time or maybe it's a stranger you just feel lead to pray for.  I have a prayer journal that holds the names of people I want to pray for.  If I don't write their names down and work from a list, I have trouble remembering.

Sometimes, though, I struggle with whether or not I'm praying for the right things.  How do *I* know what God's will is for this person?  Could I be praying for them on a deeper level?  Please don't misunderstand.  I'm not saying that my prayers aren't heard or valid the way they are or that prayers need to be perfect.  I'm just wondering if I could be more respectful and effective.

One way to know our prayers are right on target is by praying God's words (Scripture) back to Him.  I wrote about this back in 2009, specifically in regard to praying for our children, and still find that it is an incredibly powerful way to pray.

A couple weeks ago, my friend, Gloria, sent me an article by Dr. Will Bruce, and I found it incredibly helpful.  I want to offer up a few quotes from the article and outline some suggestions he makes for deeper praying.

A few of the sections in the article really got me thinking (he says it like it is).  There's this one...

"To be guilty of the sin of prayerlessness is to be guilty of the worst form of practical atheism. It is actually saying we can get along without His help while the evidence is very clear on every hand that we cannot. Could it be that the sin of prayerlessness stems from our unbelief that he is a living God who exercises direct influence on the affairs of men? Instead of waiting until crisis problems develop which result in panic praying for others, we need to trust God to protect them as we pray Spirit-led, thoughtful, caring prayers before the problems overwhelm them, and they are unable to cope. We need to engage in major battles, not just minor skirmishes, moving from surface praying to in-depth praying. We need to pray both defensively and offensively."

Here's another...

"We need to progress beyond, “Lord, bless John and Mary,” and be specific, thus moving from crisis praying to protective praying. For example: Fred or Jane is unemployed. We pray for a job, as we should, but what is God saying in this circumstance? What are the spiritual lessons to be learned? What are the attitudes, the frustrations, the mental depressions, the fears? How about the interpersonal relationships within and outside the family? Is God glorified in this time of stress by their actions and reactions? Many times in our very limited intercession for others we pray for deliverance from difficult circumstance, sickness, or accident. We forget to ask that Fred or Jane will take God’s more than ample provision and learn the lessons God has for both in this trial. Our concern is not necessarily for the removal of the problem but for victory in it and God’s glory. Daniel was not kept out of the lion’s den. He was kept in it!"

And, this one...

"...we must not excuse ourselves by saying, “How can I pray for them when they do not tell me their needs?” Others’ needs are often similar to our own. As we think of their needs, his word and his Spirit will lead us in prayer."

Bruce goes on to provide ways we can pray for those on our list (and for ourselves!) in a more meaningful way.  If we are intensely lifting someone in prayer, we could go down the whole list of 17, but on a day to day basis, we can chose two to three at a time.  Bruce suggests we ask that the one we are praying for...

1) ...will realize his/her present exalted position in Christ.

2) ...will present him/herself as a living sacrifice.

3) ...will be filled with the Holy Spirit.

4) ...will be regular and systematic in the study of God's Word.

5) ...will have the mind of Christ.

6) ...will grow daily in Christian maturity.

7) ...will appropriate the full armor of God.

8) ...will be alert to Satan's strategy.

9) ...will not love the world system.

10) ...will have a spirit of brokenness and humility.

11) ...will have a servant's heart.

12) ...will build a scriptural family.

13) ...will become an effective prayer warrior.

14) ...will know God's hand on him/her in physical and material things.

15) ...will engage in prayerful worship.

16) ...will be involved in an accountability team.

17) ...will reach out to the unsaved.

I'm finding these suggestions to be very helpful and they are making for a more meaningful prayer time for me.  I'm hoping that maybe they can do the same for you.

If you would like to read the article in full or read more in depth explanations of the above 17 suggestions (including Biblical references) above, please go here.


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Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Prayer {Day 2}: Mealtime

Before I begin today, I want to ask you to please pray for a fellow reader and her family.  Judy's husband was diagnosed with a pancreatic tumor and will see his oncologist on Friday (she shared this with us yesterday in the comments).  As we are thinking of prayer this week, let's make sure that their family is covered in it. Thank you.

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You're rushing around, trying to get all the components of dinner ready at the same time- food cooked, food pulled from the fridge, the table set, the water poured.  Maybe, if your children are old enough, they are "helping" set the table or pour the water which may mean you're also trying to provide instruction so everyone gets a fork and so water isn't dumped everywhere.

Maybe you have everything ready and you call your family for supper and no one comes for a good five minutes while all the hot food turns kind-of warm.  It's easy to feel insulted.  After all this work, all they have to do is come and sit down and eat and yet...where are they?!

Or sometimes, everyone is sitting at their places early because dinner isn't quite ready or is taking longer to bake than you expected.  The family is hungry and desperate to dig in as soon as it's set in front of them.

All of this (and so much more) is reason enough to quiet everyone once everything is ready.  Quiet them and breathe.  Setting aside a few moments to pause, to reflect and give credit where credit is due.  I admit, I like to hear that the meal I prepared was good, but really.  Really, folks.  If it wasn't for the plants and animals God created, the means He gives us to obtain them and the strength and health He gives us to prepare them and eat them, we'd be experiencing a very different life.

I think we can sacrifice a few moments to say thank you, don't you? And if we're really present in the moment and really turning our thoughts and thanksgiving toward God, then mealtime (three times a day) can lead to meaningful prayer time that's already built in!

Encouraging our children to pray their own prayers out loud and exposing them to our out-loud prayers at mealtimes is teaching them to pray.  It's showing them that prayers don't have to be perfect.  That sometimes, we have to tack on requests after we said "amen" because we just remembered someone else we wanted to pray for.  When we direct their attention to the ways we see God during the day, it teaches them to look for God themselves.

And yet, so many of us (me included!!) sometimes treat mealtime prayer as a formality.  As something we have to say in order to get to eat.  In the past, our family had fallen into the habit of saying a standard prayer all together.  There is nothing terribly wrong with saying a memorized prayer in unison, but I think it lends itself to robotic praying.  Oh, wouldn't it be wonderful if we could change this?  If we could take turns praying each night (kids included) or if we all went around the table and contributed to the prayer?  If we made it a meaningful time of praise, thanksgiving, repenting and asking for help...as a family...all seated together?

And if our food gets a little cold?  Well, so be it.

A Mini Series on Prayer {Day 1}

Prayer {Day 3}: Praying for One Another
Prayer {Day 4}: The World Pin It

Monday, July 25, 2011

A Mini Series, On Prayer {Day 1}

I know that we're just coming into a very busy time where our gardens are concerned, but something has been pressing on me.  So, let's (mentally) lay down our garden gloves and canning lids for our time together this week. This week I want to do something a little different.  For a few days, I want to talk about prayer.  I know I don't fully comprehend it's power and importance.  I know I don't engage in it enough.  I know my prayers aren't always what they could be.  I'm not alone in this, right?  I want to make some changes and beef up my prayer life and I'm hoping you'll join me.

So, here's the plan.  Today, I'm going to remind us about what scripture says about prayer.  Tomorrow, I'm going to offer up some thoughts on mealtime prayer.  Wednesday, I want to talk about the importance of praying for others and some practical ways of how we can pray more effectively for them.  Thursday, we'll go out even further and talk about praying for the world.  Friday, I won't post, but I want to challenge those of you who have read along all week to set aside 30 minutes of deliberate prayer time.  Yes, 30 minutes.  We can do it!

Are you ready?!  Let's begin!  Below are some of my favorite verses about prayer and how to pray.  If you have a favorite that you don't see here, please type it out into the comments.  Let's remember that these are not mere words from an old book.  These are the words breathed (2 Timothy 3:16) by God for US- you and me- for this very day.  Let's meditate on these verses and commit our week of prayer to God, asking that He will do mighty things with our prayer lives from this week forward.

"But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 
so that you may be children of your Father in heaven."  Matthew 5:44-45a

"But whenever you pray, go into your room and shut the door 
and pray to your father who is in secret; 
and your father who sees in secret will reward you." 
Matthew 6:6

"When you are praying, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentlies do; 
for they think that they will be heard because of their many words.  
Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need 
before you ask Him."  Matthew 6 :7-8

“This, then, is how you should pray:
   “‘Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,

your kingdom come,

your will be done,

   on earth as it is in heaven.

Give us today our daily bread.

And forgive us our debts,

   as we also have forgiven our debtors.

And lead us not into temptation,

   but deliver us from the evil one.
Matthew 6:9-13

"Then he said to his disciples, 
The harvest is plentiful but the laborers are few; 
therefore ask the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into the harvest." Matthew 9:37-38

"Stay awake and pray that you may not come into the time of trial; 
the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak." Luke 22:46

"So, I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, 
believe that you have received it 
and it will be yours." Mark 11:24

"Bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you." Luke 6:28

"Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness; 
for we do not know how to pray as we ought, 
but that very Spirit intercedes with sighs too deep for words." 
Romans 8:26

"Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; 
for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." 1 Thessalonians 5: 16-18?

"...the Lord hears when I call to Him." Psalm 4: 3b

"The prayers of the righteous are powerful and effective." James 5:16b

Prayer {Day 2}: Mealtime
Prayer {Day 3}: Praying for One Another
Prayer {Day 4}: The World  Pin It

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Right There in the Flower Bed

This past week, I've been reminded in several ways to listen and I'm about to share with you my very favoritest make-my-eyes-mist-and-my-heart-swell reminder.

I listen to my kids.  I listen to their countless questions, requests, demands, arguing and whines.  I also listen to their giggles, their humor, their stories, their countless noises and their creative play.  What I don't do as often as I should is sit and listen to them for an extended period of time.  There always seems to be so much to do and in a family of three children, often all vying for my attention, the spans of attention I can give are generally pretty brief.

Well, the other day I had a chance to spend some one-on-one time with Sadie who turned five a couple months ago.  It was after lunch.  Miriam was napping and Jamey (who is on a partial break for the next few weeks) was doing school with Sam.  I asked Sadie if she would like to help me clean up the flower beds outside.  She has been in such a helpful mood these last couple months. I knew she'd say yes and she did.

I thought this would be a good chance for her and I to spend a few hours together and it was.  We talked, but mostly worked.  She has such a sweet spirit and did everything I asked of her, only pausing for short periods of time when she came across a worm and would hold it lovingly and talk to it for awhile before returning it to the dirt.

At one point, with our knees and hands down in the soil, Sadie told me that she wants to help an old lady whose arm bumps a door and who drops her bags of groceries like Solomon did.  It took me a second to realize that she was talking about the little Amish boy in her and Sam's devotional book (The Wisdom of Solomon).  He had helped an old woman pick up her dropped things and knew it pleased God.  Sadie went on to ask if it makes God happy when she's a good helper and I told her that of course it does.

She then caught me by surprise.

She asked, "Why am I not a Christian?"

I paused, being taken off guard, and then asked, "Would you like to be a Christian?"  She said yes.  I went on to explain (in the simplest terms I could muster) the things a person needs to believe in order to become one.  I asked her if she believed these things. "Yes," she said, looking up at me.  I told her that we could say a prayer telling God and she and I prayed right there in the dirt with the birds singing and the breezes blowing.  She beamed, especially when I told her that there were angels in heaven rejoicing because of her prayer.  We hugged and I kissed her in that flower bed and we both couldn't stop smiling.


I'm sharing this because had I not thought to spend time with her in this way, I would've missed this conversation and this special, special time in her little life.  Was it my idea to take her outside with me that afternoon?  Initially I thought it was my own good idea. (Can you hear me pat, pat, patting myself on the back?).  Or was it God prompting me?  Had He wanted my little girl to give her sweet life to Him on that glorious spring day and just used me to help make it happen?

I've heard several stories over the last few days of people being prompted by God.  Sometimes they didn't know it was God doing the prompting until later.  If we knew the words we were hearing were of God, wouldn't we leap to obey?  Sometimes His thoughts may be hard to discern because they could be passed off as one of our thoughts or ideas.  But, how often do we miss His nudges because they seem like odd ideas we have, things that would either make us uncomfortable or take us outside of our comfort zone? What if they're not our weird ideas but His all-knowing, perfect and potentially powerful ones?

"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the LORD.  
Isaiah 55:8

I suggest we listen more and pray for discernment.  I don't want to miss a single prompt.

I love you sweet people.  And I'd love to hear about a time when you experienced God's nudging.  Did you recognize it was Him at the time?  What happened? Pin It

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Window on the World

Last year I wrote a homeschooling post at the end of each month summarizing what we had fun studying.  I don't think that's going to happen this year.  At least not is such organized fashion.  But I definitely will still be sharing because I love reading about what others love about school and I'm just going to go ahead and assume that you do, too.


I am absolutely smitten and impressed with several of our school books this year.  The first one I want to tell you about is Window on the World by Daphne Spraggett with Jill Johnstone.  Each chapter introduces you and your child to a different people group.  It highlights parts of a map to show you where the group lives, tells you about them (often through conversations involving children) and then...get this...it gives you ideas of what you can thank God for relating to this people group and how you can pray for them.  I had no idea a book like this existed.  This book also includes sections on six major world religions.





Let's back up a second and talk about "people groups".  You know how in the Bible it says at the end of Matthew (28:19), "Go therefore and make disciples of all nations..." ?  Well, when we read the word "nations", we often think of nation states or countries, right?  Well, the original Greek word is "ethne" and is more completely translated as "an ethnic or cultural people group".  This is the Greek word that we get our English word "ethnic" from.  So, Jesus is not talking about countries in this verse, He is talking about people groups- a group of people who share a distinct language and culture (as well as specific social, economic, and geographical traits).

 

There are many more people groups than there are countries and we need to be aware of that so we can understand the scriptures properly- so we know not only what Jesus was talking about at the end of Matthew, but also what He was referring to when He said in Matthew 24:14, "And this good news of the kingdom will be proclaimed throughout the world, as a testimony to all the nations; and then the end will come."  I've let on before that I want to be a part of this.  This book is showing us how to pray for these other people groups!  Can you tell I'm a little bit excited about it?


The kids and I have looked into the eyes and faces of peoples we never knew existed.  Oh, it's so amazing how we can love people we've never met!  More than once, I have bawled my through our closing prayer after reading a chapter- particularly the chapter on street children.  The kids can't help but stare at me instead of closing their eyes.  Some good conversations have followed our reading of this book.

I highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to get to know and pray for people throughout the world.  You don't have to homeschool or even have children.  This is a powerful tool for prayer and will open our eyes to the world beyond our little towns and culture.

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Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Praying the Scriptures


I often find my prayers for my children to be...well...dull. I pray for their safety, their salvation and that they will be used by God to further His kingdom. It's not that I think there is anything wrong with what I am praying about. It's just that expressing these prayers has become routine. I say them and mean them, but there is often not a whole lot of feeling and thought behind them. Does that make sense?

I think part of my problem is I am often uncertain what to pray for. Should I ask for this for my children? Are my motives pure? Are these prayers effective in the way I want them to be?

Several years ago, I came across a book. As soon as I started flipping through the pages, I felt joy and relief. I found a way to pray for my kids. And, what I am about to say is very important to me, it wasn't a person telling me what or how to pray. I was being instructed to pray God's own words- the scriptures.

Praying the Scriptures for Your Children: Discover How to Pray God's Will for Their Lives by Jodie Berndt is the book. Over the years, I have returned to this book over and over again when I feel my prayers are losing their vitality.

The book includes five sections; Praying for Your Child's Faith, Praying for Your Child's Character, Praying for Your Child's Relationships and Praying for Your Child's Future. There are several chapters within each section that target specific topics. There are brief introductions to each chapter that talk about the topic and then, my favorite part, the scriptures are presented (about ten for each chapter).

The author encourages you to insert your child's name into the scriptures presented. For example, under the topic of Praying for Your Child to Love God's Word comes the following scriptures (among others)...

May _____ not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God. (Matthew 4:4)

Make your word a lamp to ______'s feet and a light for her path. (Psalm 119:105)

Under the topic of Praying for Your Child's Relationship...With Siblings, are these verses...

Show _______ and her siblings how to be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as you have forgave them. (Ephesians 4:32)

Do not permit ______ to be quarrelsome; instead, cause him to be gentle, patient, and humble, especially when his siblings are in the wrong...because then they will be more likely, with God's help, to turn away from their wrong ideas and believe what is true. (2 Timothy 2:24-26)

And what's best about all of this? How can we go wrong praying God's Word back to Him? Praying in this way gives me an air of authority over my prayers that I never had before. And, I can use these prayers for others as well.

This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. (1 John 5:14)



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Sunday, September 7, 2008

Make Us Instruments


A Prayer attributed to St. Francis

Lord, make us instruments of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let us sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where they is discord, union;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy.
Grant that we may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen.
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